Does this mean we're meant to be or should i give up?

Published by: rose 2010-03-14

So i've been dating this guy on and off for about a year, and its been pretty rough. so when times got hard i turned to god and asked him what i should do. Should i let it go, or stay with him.Time after time my feelings for him just kept getting stronger, and no matter where i look or go his name is always popping up. And whenever i feel that im ready to let him go he always seems to come back.What does this mean? I know your probably like well there's your answers but things are still pretty rough for us..although i dont feel like i'm ready to give up. But the fact that things are still rough is that my sign to let it go?Even tho i feel, and my heart tells me otherwise?

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Your heart will always tell you otherwise. You need to think about the long run. If you're looking for someone who will give you long-term companionship, he may not be the one.

Girlfriend, join the club of millions of confused women not sure knowing how to read the signs put before us. All I can say is been there,done that, and still doing it. Stick to prayer and if that doesn't seem to console you then take it a step further and go to church and have someone pray over you and even then so it may not seem like the answer you want. In the end you need to decide what you want from this and find the energy and motivation to get it because no one can give that to you but yourself and god.

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i am in this exact same situation and its the toughest thing to go through. your head is telling you its not gonna be like it was and to let go, but your heart is telling you to keep going and things will work out. i say, just talk to him and try and work this stuff out, and hang out with him and perhaps those feelings will come back. good luck!

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depends on what you mean by rough. is it that you argue?or is he abusing you in some way? in the case of abuse run don't walk for help!
that only gets worse! otherwise we cant help who we love it is what it is
but if a person treats you bad we have to decide if they are worthy of the honor of having our love and decide to love ourselves more and let go.from experience i know that this is easier to say than it is to do
feels like crap to think of being alone.but alone is not always lonely there you may find yourself

I'll be totally honest with you, me and my fiance met when I was 15 and he was 18.. ever since then (6 years later) we have always had those points, where i feel that i should let him go and that there is no point in trying to make it work. But like you said, when i'm at a point when i think i should go, he makes me want to stay.. and not because i'm used to him, but because my heart stays with him when i leave. On sunday, we started discussing some plans for our wedding, when it broke off into an argument. It hurt me that he was not as interested in the planning as i am, and accused him of not loving me, only being "used to me" but right when i was about to get out of the car and say good bye to our plans and him.. he turned to me and said how much he loved me, he reminded me of everything we've been through, and that even though he's a man, he knows what he feels for me. It was the most amazing moment, and words.. and so I stayed of course.
Point of my long story: If you're willing to try to make it work, it's not because you're hard headed, it's because you're strong hearted. You love him, and you know that leaving him will be the worst thing you can do to yourself. I know exactly how you feel, but believe me that even through the tough times we've spent, all the beautiful moments we've shared during these 6 years, have made my stay all worth it.

If you love this guy enough to marry him, then remember that there are always going to be bad moments in a marriage that you're both going to have to work through, and if you're saying in your mind "well i'm going to find a way to make them work" then what's stopping you now?

Good luck and hope this helped.

Sorry to hear you're having a rough time. Trust your faith in the relationship, look on the positive side in everything that happens between you two. And really look at what is causing things to be rough. If you're in a pattern, you will need to figure out what's behind it and fix it or the relationship won't last.

Good luck.