had a situation with this girl we became close friends very close but we ne, we got to be pretty close, lots of people assumed we were together...but i was very shy at the time and never made a move lookingback i def should have.....we got along great.after a while we had our misunderstandings were on and off friends for a while saw other people ,there was always some sexual tension between us...i was very inexperened when we first met , i have a tendency to get protective of her thats where some issues come from, some of her friends i dont really think are good for her, i drink i wont bite my toungue about it...i really cant stop myself sometimes, i would go off and i could see she would be hurt, i feel terrible about doing it...Welli ended up back home afnd we both were single but she wouldnt talk 2 me at the time.....i sent her flowers by deliv and told her i was sorry and that ive had feelings for her...she invited me to come to her birthday party when i saw her and seemed to be happy with me...at her party I got drunk some things i shouldnt have about her friends after another fight a week afterthat which i dont recall...i didnt try talking to her again for 2-3 months later by then she started seeing someone else.I know i said stupid things to her but it was just being protective not really intentionally hurtful your all probably thinkingim nalcholholibut really not,just a little alchohol bring s out my protectiveness of her,i drink proably twice a month now so thats not an issue,i really dont mean it i wish i wasnt like that....so she seeing someone elese i respect that, she saw me at a party after she started seeing him was giving me smiles and seemed like she was following me around but io didnt say much but hi, didnt really try contacting her except on her birthday, never emailed imed or anything......she blocked me on aim months and months after last time i tried talking to her and now she wont accept my facebook request and isnt denying it either just letting it sit there....all her friends also give me strange looks when i see them her close girl friends too not the creeps i was so protective about...your like i did something terrible, i saw her 2 nights ago at the bar, i tried avoiding her she seemed to be around a lot...we made eye contact once and she gave me a smile, she also was standing behind me it seemed every time i looked at the bar,,,why wouldnt she try to avoid me if she hates me enough to block me on aim?? i mean she keeps playing games this has been years and years...shes got a boyfriend shouldnt she be tired of this? if your gonna block me wouldnt you stay the hell away from me if were in the same bar? it seemed like i was the one angry at the bar, i wanted to talk but since she blocked me i though mabye i shoudlnt...what should i do? Wake-Up Wal-Mart Blog: January 2006 Archives::
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i think you should leave her alone. if she was into you she wouldnt be tryin to play games with u. that can hurt u in the long run and can hurting can bring up old habits. 1 of my friends has went through this before 2008 The Situationist::
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WOW! uhm. to me it seems like the best thing to do in this situation is to talk to her in person. if she wont let you on the computer approach her in person.
read the whole thing.... bt how old r u??..... u sound like a 14 or 15 yr old... bt u drink and go to the bar....so im confused!!!
awwwww.........first, go to AA so that u can fix that drinking problem. I think that she still sees you but after her party and you said those things no wonder she blocked you on AIM. I dont get why she would STILL be mad but if i were her i guess i would be a litl mad about the protectivness thing. keep trying to get to her that wya she'll see that you still care about her. im sure she knows but there is this still this guy that shes seeing. once she gets over him, shell look to you. smile! im sure shell get to you :)
ignore her, i think shes just using you to amuse herself, forget her and move on.
Please leave her alone, for both your sakes. She may not hate you but she definitely doesn't want to go out with you, and I can see why. She gave you a second chance at that party and you proved to her that you wouldn't change. I wouldn't expect her to leave just because she finds herself in the same bar with you. She has every right to be there. She's not playing games. Playing games would be actually flirting with you, not blocking you on AIM even though she doesn't want to talk to you, or letting you pin her, then dropping you. I think she's made her intentions very clear. She is seeing other people, she is not interested in you.
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As for you. You do have a drinking problem and you need to come to terms with it. It doesn't matter if you only drink twice a month or even once a month. You know how it affects you and you still do it, that's a problem. You say you aren't an alcoholic... fine, quit drinking. When you find you can't quit then get help, you're going to need it. You won't be able to get any girl with this problem unless you buy her out of poverty and then she'll just take your money and leave. If you care about yourself you will get this problem under control and then get on with your life. And don't do it thinking it'll get you your girl back... it won't, I'll tell you right now. You've lost her forever and there is nothing you can do about it. Get yourself sorted out and find someone else.
Two words: Move on.
she obviosly only thinks of you as a friend.And plus, I wouldn't want to date a man who drank at all. Sooo...yeah...move on.
k, i read half of it, but, for future reference, summarize the situation not 2 long! whoa thats long; it must be a bad situation!
but there's no way im reading all that...
Ignore her. get over her. find someone new. how else can i say this?
Why are you putting yourself through this? This is not healthy or normal. Can you imagine yourself in a healthy relationship. Were it feels good to be around this person. and they love being around you. and you can say anything and know they will love you forever? Where you can just cuddle on a couch without worrying about anything?
DONT YOU WANT THAT? Ignoring each other, then being excited over something as simple as eye contact, then following each other around. This is RIDICULOUS! And you have wasted years and years doing this crap, when you could have been happy with at least 3 other girls. You will look back and hate the time you wasted on this girl.
You need to get over her. I know it will be hard, but just work on not talking to her anymore. Dont worry about aim. Get a new screen name. Change you number and ERASE hers. (just in case you are tempted.) Stop sending flowers, stop thinking about her boyfriend and her friends, and her life in general. Dont go to a bar if she is there. yes that will be hard, but it is whats best. Believe me, I KNOW. lol.
Try investing all this wasted time and energy into something you love. I just cant beleive this never occured to you. Why have you wasted so much time on her. you two wont ever be anything now, especially with the history. You havent been perfect, and she has been leading you on. And it isnt fair.
Its time for you to say enough,and get on with your life. Be happy, geez. Dont you want to be happy?
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