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My boyfriend dumped me, i feel alone & lost!?
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my essay on suicide how is it? this is my final draft. english is my ::
Su•i•cide • n. the action of killing oneself intentionally Suicide is the process of intentionally ending ones life .The way societies view or
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he basically doesnt want to be with me anymore. we were together 11 months yesterday and everything was fine until today when people started calling me controling and i guess he was just tired of everything and dumped me, again, with a text! yes we went out b4 and i wanted to give it another chance, we were together longer this time and we fell in love. 2 hours ago he said he loved me! :'( now i just want to cry all the time! i dont want to go to school and see him. i just hate him and my heart is officially broken! what can i do?

Just try to clear your mind.
Start talking to another dude.
The only thing you can do is move on.
good luck =]

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I tell my gurls this all the time drop the 0 and get you a hero and when you see him at school walk right pass him as though he never existed in other words ignore him it will kill him he won't know what to think and keep doing it until it does.....GOOD LUCK

try to do things to take your mind off of him like hang out with friends, or go to a movie. do stuff for you! my guess is you went out for 11 months and he's gonna dig up all the memories you both had and he will miss you again.

here's a story, i went out with my ex for 11 months as well and we were forced to break up but we didnt talk for 2 years until last month and we hit it off but shes been very confusing because shes been jealous but isnt admitting she has feelings for me, so i just try and shrug it off because when she is ready to connect i will be there for her, and thats all you can do. i told her she just needs to figure out what she wants and i lost her once and im pretty sure i can do it again.

i even wrote this to her:

Dear Ungirlfriend,

I have a problem with your apparent problem of saying we're not going out, so I'm out of here. I'm not crazy about being friends. I'm not going to go backwards with you. I'm not going to go shopping with you. I'm not going to half-*** it with you. I absolutely adore and love you and am not able to be just buddies. You're getting bumped to the bottom of the batting order. You were riding first-class with prime rib and shopping. Now you're in coach with a bag of peanuts. I'm going to have to assume that you just aren't strong enough to get it together. No worries, I'm not angry. Timing is 80% of life, and it's just not there. Maybe we'll connect in a few months, maybe a few years, maybe never. None of that is my problem, or yours, for that matter. It's just not good enough right now. So, if things change, you still have my number. If not, I'll see you around. I might pretend that I don't know you, but no hard feelings, right, buddy?

Poems About Friendship - Best Friend Poems, Inspirational Friendship Poems::
I feel alone and like my secrets are all a burden on me and theres no escape This is also another poem of when my boyfriend dumped me.:( Alone Right Now
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I feel so betrayed by my bf? I just broke up with my boyfriend of over ::
He always lied to me about using drugs and i finally reached my breaking point and dumped him and now im
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Sincerely,
The One Who Got Away.

bummer. find a better guy and fall into a relationship rather than be in a sketchy one. either that or pull off an "i'm so okay" attitude and make him see that it's his loss.
or just go with girls, cos they're so much more considerate. lol, no. just chill out and search for something new and beautiful.

if ur hot ill be ur shoulder to cry on if ur not there is other fish in the sea

Words and logic simply just don't suffice with something like this. It is one of the most terrible and lonely feelings in life. It is wasted for any of us to say, "Try not to worry" or "You'll get over it" because right now it simply just HURTS. I'm sorry that you are hurting - been there, done that - it sucks. Sometimes things "spin around" - be patient and maybe this is not the end. If it is truly the end, then the best I can say is the old adage, "That which doesn't kill us, makes us stronger". It may feel deadly now but consider that there are people that after 30 years of marriage endure a divorce and live. You may not WANT to live right now but you can and will. Try to continue to "do ordinary things" because when you do routine, normal things - it makes you feel a little more normal even though you are devastated. Remember when you first tried to learn to ride a bicycle and fell and hurt yourself ? This is that experience but in "learning to love/be loved". Sorry that you hurt, but you can go on. My prayers for you.

Is it wrong, I mean legally? Well, my boyfriend recently dumped me, and ::
Its not illegal but it could cause some issues within your family if they have a problem with it. Its not illegal but it could cause some issues within
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Act proactively, rather than reactively. Allow ourself time to process, grieve, or whatever else we need to feel from the situation. Go ahead and be angry if you have to. Do not project your anger, guilt, or sadness onto your ex, that will only create difficult feelings for both of you too. But DO allow ourself to feel the feelings. And be proactive in the process.

It is important in this step to not immediately replace love for our self with love for another. If we immediately date someone new, we run the risk of reliving the mistakes all over again and not learning, rather than facing our fears and challenges and growing stronger because of them. My heart is with you in this effort as it is our biggest challenge in healing our broken heart: facing our own shadow side. Often, what hurt us the most from our partner and the breakup involves facing that part of ourselves which is hardest to look at. In order to love our bright and happy side we must also love our shadow side. Acceptance is a key to our success with loving our complete self.

Hope everything goes for you!

well what an *** to do dump you through a text ..obvisly he has no respect for you ... i know its hurts and its going to hurt so what you need to do is go out have fun and take care of you! I know its hard to hear but there is someone out there better who will respect you and can think for themselves .. so have a good cry then get up brush yourself off and go do something fun for yourself because you deserve it and when you go to school dont let him see you hurt .. i hope this helps but the more you smile it will come naturally and some wonderful guy out there will see that and see what a great girl you really are !

you need to act like you dont give a **** even if you do. i just broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half bc i found out she cheated on me. You just need to move on also Are you controlling??? do you always ask him where hes at and what hes doing and do u get mad when he doesnt text you right back or do u get mad if he was to go off with his friends for one night if u do ne of these things you do need to relax and trust him being somewhere without you or trust that hes busy at the moment and cant respond.......but if you dont then if hes gonna dump you say **** it and move on its NOT easy but this sounds like something that can be possibly worked out. Talking about it and looking for a solution is how thats fixed but dont start fighting when your talking this out listen to him as he will listen to you

a couple of pointers

if it is supposed to happen it will
don't force it
if he really loves you he'll be back
love=confusion
don't be bossy
work with him don't dictate

ill get your mind off your ex, baby.. no im kidding um... tomorow...since its late right now...go out with some of ur girlfriends and just have fun! meet some new guys! or talk to a guy that u already knoe. and he dumped you thru a text, whta loser. if u need someone to talk to msg me or sumthin

your heart may b broken but like everything else that breaks, its nvr gone. The pieces fall into a bucket and u need a guy that will love u for who u r and will take his time to reach into that bucket and help piece ur heart back together. Thats the problem with young teen couples its very heart on them when theres a break up and it leads to depression almost like the way u feel. Just take a break from guys and focus on education wait till ur like 17 or so that way u have matured more and will b able to handle a break up better. Its nvr fun to cry:( over something like this but lifes full of obstacles and this is just one. Theres someone out there for everyone and it seemed like he just wasnt the one. U cant necessary blame him for everything happens for a reason. If he is a good guy u all can still b friends if he completly ignores u like nothin happened then its like he nvr cared at all. B happy for u have every reason to b even when u dont think u do, u actually really do bcuz ur given an opportunity in life to feel what life is all about and there r lots of people out there that dont get the chance (3rd world countries) Learn to love urself for who u r rather than hatin for who ur not, do that and u will feel all the love u need right now:)

Move on sweetie, you have a lifetime to meet other people, this is just one heart break, you'll encounter many more b-4 the right one comes along.

darl.. first of all dont punish yourself by crying and avoiding ur normal life because of him. Go to school. Show him u can cope just fine without him. Show him u can find another man. Cheer urself up with some guys. go out to a club tonight and flirt. Make him jealous. Make him want you. The best part is you can make him suffer by NOT going back to him. Make him regret dumping u. Coz u r a great girl I am sure and he is an *** for dumping u.

he is a loser. you will find better! it's hard but move on. clearly he is an idiot for doing what so many people tell him to.

girl, the faster you realize its not the end of the world - the faster he'll come running to you.
Or atleast try to ACT like you dont give a shyt.. trust me. works like a charm.
plus, why would you want to be with a guy that dumped you..? and then he goes and tells you he leaves you through a text?
He's PLAYING with your emotions like crazy. dont even answer him on no texts or any phone calls..(atleast for 3 days)
- if you in school, try to be around 2 or 3 friends for the next couple of days and put on the fakest laughs and smiles you got if you see him.
good luck.

So sorry to hear that. :(

Go to Hulu.com and watch some Family Guy or SNL episodes. Those will make you laugh. Hopefully.

give it time youll heal

the more u show it is not getting to u the more it will make him realize what he is missing...happened to me in high school...i broke up with a girl that was "controlling" and the next day she came walkin in dolled up and i just could not get over how much i loved her....we were on and off for a year before that whole situation so after that we stayed together til college when we went our "seperate ways" - thanks journey

im srry that this happened 2 u. and i totally understand that u feel alone and lost. its like uve lost a part of ur heart. but the best u can do is pick ur self up, brush ur self off and walk with ur chin in the air. he broke ur heart but u still have ur dignity. make him regret that he let a girl like u go. cry 2nite but smile 2morrow. i kno that sounds stupid and insensitive but u still have ur friends. and what ive learned from the times my heart has been broken is this: Even though the world seems as though its come to an end, the sun still comes up in the morning, and your heart still beats. Try not to think about him, and get ur self out there to get ur mind off of him. :)