Hi
since i was a kid , i remember having no friends at school and being redeculed and made fun off. noone wanted to play with me or hang out with me as a teenager. and the people who did, they redeculed me and treated me badlly.
i get really worried whilst am around other people. i just keep getting scared that they will dislike me and they wont wana be around me. this always seems to happen though
i wish i can be liked and i wish i had more friends
i just keep getting scared of what people willl think of me
ive had two boyfriends, who they said loved me, and i split up with them both because i just couldnt believe that someone would love me, i was extremelly surprised that they stayed with me so long .
i want to feel normal and like myself a bit more
do i have a mental condition?
i know i do but i dont know what it is
would you please give me any advice?
am 19 now, at university, i missed all of last years lectures because i couldnt face coming in and being rejected and walking around with no friends like i did at school, i do go in this year though because if i dont my uni said i would be asked to leave
i want to be normal
please help me?
say hi to people, they won't hate you
It sounds like you've got some pretty extreme social anxiety, and maybe some pretty low self-esteem. Neither is really a "mental condition," per se, but it sounds like it's causing you a lot problems. If you can't get out to your classes, you probably need some help. Contact your university's counseling department. They should be able to help you, or at least direct you to someone who can.
Don't just ignore this, it won't go away by itself. Work on it, and you can have a better life.
i wish I could give you a big hug :) sound like you have a bit of depression. I too have a hard time at this thing called life. you should reach out to a Dr. at ur University. The days of bullies are long gone! You are a wonderful, sensitive young person who needs a little help.. start slow, give yourself a small goal. Talk to 1 person today. Give one person a compliment; ease into talking to people; there's nothing to be afraid of; you are creating your fear.
The worst thing you can do is do nothing; it gets worse. like crawling out of a deep hole. You are an amazing young person! There are tons of people out there who would love to be your friend. Try meetup.com for some groups where you live.
and please don't miss out on an education! go to class, it's helping you :)
they probably make fun of you because they think you're wierd because you basically shun people. which doesn't mean you are it just means you're shy to the extreme, and may have a mental condition.
you shouldn't look down on yourself so much, and think you don't deserve people's love, that's not good for you. you should see a psychologist, not to say that you will, but people who think they are worthless usually end up comminting suicide.
please seek help.
good luck.
News alert: you're at university to get an education so put the social thing on hold. People aren't much interested in making friends with people who are too needy or insecure. Believe in yourself, your talents, your intelligence, your goodness, your personality. Be an interesting person and you will start attracting interesting people to you. It's not about being the best, loudest, funniest, most popular, but about expressing interest in others with whom you may have something in common and letting them know you'd like to get to know them better. There are times in life when we're alone, but it sounds like you're creating a self-fulfilling misery by walking around looking worried, dejected, and pitiful. Not very appealing.
shake that fear off, you are totally normal girl and i think you are really cute, what you have is not mental condition, its internal beauty, you have a world on your own, just share it a little with others
Don't mind the intolerance, do your thing, this worlds not theirs, its yours and everyone's. And those who treat others badly smell funny.
Strength, those who endure are always rewarded!
Hey. It sounds to me like your self-confidence is shot. It should not be though, because the God who created the stars in the sky loves you, and wants to spend eternity in heaven with you. Ask Him to come into your life and to forgive you for all of the wrong things you've done, and you will have a new life. Try to get involved in a club or organization, people won't automatically hate you. Also, do something good for yourself like get a massage or a pedicure. Counseling might be good too.
1 John 3:1 (NIV) How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him.
I think you have very low self esteem. You could probably benefit from some counseling. I urge you to try it, to bring you peace of mind. Good luck!
yeah somethings wrong i think. talk to your doctor.
if anyone remotely talks to you, they want to be your friend XD so just talk to some people, dont be shy, they wont hate you, lots of people have more tact than that.
I recommend seeing a psychologist. Only because what you went through when you were younger is effecting you NOW. Its not unnormal. dont' worry about that, just relax and talk to a psych. they will be able to help you deal with this issue and get to the root of the problem. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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