ok so here is the run down my son right now has to sleep in my bed due to a problem in his room making my fiance have to sleep in the living room. this makes intimacy very difficult. i am 32 weeks pregnant and have been feeling.. i dont know just very .. not so beautiful latley and my fiance has been very distant. this evening we had an oppurtunity to be intimate but my fiance did not act apon it. instead at 11pm he said he was tired. so respecting his wishes i went into the bedroom, i began to feel sick and very dizzy about ten minutes later and came out of the bedroom... what to my surprise did i find but my fiance watching porn on the internet doin.. well ya know.. this hhurt alot as he hasnt given me any affection in months. and we had agreed along time ago that if we were going to watch porn we would do it together as a couple. not alone while the other sleeps. i might be over reacting and im sure some guys will say i am but u have to understand that he really has given me no affection not even hugs and kisses on his own i always have to go to him for it. now all i can think of is him watching another women in an intimate moment rather then wanting to be with me. he says he is sorry and he loves me but i just dont know if he is telling me the truth or not.. please honestly what should i do and how do i handle the situation. i am very upset and its now 1:40 am and i cant sleep... BTC Forum- Thread List::
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See if you can get the problem in your sons room fixed asap. Your finance might be feeling neglected and has found a way to take care of his own business....or he might have a porn addiction who knows, either way I am sure he does love you. He could have had a real woman in the living room...so I guess the alternative is better however don't stress over it...you're not feeling that great all around right now and it isn't good for the baby to be stressed out ok? It will work out. The baby will be here soon and you will be able to work at getting back to your pre pregnancy size and feel much better. Many men actually find pregnant women sexy.
A lot of the time, when i wanted to be intimate when i was 32 weeks pregnant, it was difficult for us to do anything because my boyfriend felt as if he was going to hurt the baby. Maybe, he feels the same way too, at this time, i think it is more of a sense of insecurity of the guy. Trust me, it will get harder when the baby is born, with your son, you didn't feel as if your baby grabbed more attention from you rather than your partner. Well, he either doesn't want to hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable, and maybe him watching porn is a better solution than him running off to someone else! don't feel bad! please help me it should only take a second - CodingForums.com::
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First of all, you're pregnant and entitled to the wide range of emotions you are feeling.
I should mention that watching porn is not intimacy ... it's fantasy. And, yes, ideally it would be great if our partners could turn a sexual urge into intimacy, but it won't always happen.
For me, the question that stood out is as to whether you believe your fiance when he says that he loves you. There are two ways to react to the statement. One is basic acceptance. The second is to question the honesty of his feelings. Both are valid responses. Acceptance is, of course, the ideal as it leads to a greater feeling of peace and comfort in the relationship. But the discomfort can also lead to a discussion of both how you and your partner are feeling. It must be an open discussion so as not to lead into a finger-pointing session.
And, you know, the thing is that it's past 1 am. in the morning for me, too. And having nights where you can't sleep is normal. Normal is good.
If you can find acceptance of your fiance's love for you, I think that is the security that makes the other issues fade into the background.
I wish you all God's blessings as you and your fiance deal with this.
Take care and don't carry the world on your shoulders ... it's too heavy! : )
i am sorry. that is horrible and you have every reason to feel the way you do. i do not think you are overreacting, but you really need to have a long talk with your husband. let him know how hurt you are.
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