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Teen/young parents, how has having a child change you? | | Published by: wktd 2009-01-09 |
| | how has it changed your life?
how has it changed the way you view life?
i was 16 when i had my daughter. before i had her i was a bit of a recluse, i wouldn't go out i never saw anyone unless it was needed. i was an alcoholic and suicidal. i was told i'd never have children . and then my life got flip around, after having my daughter i saw the life in a happier way i had a reason to be alive and i loved it. she made me realise i had a reason to live, i was born to be her mother. i welcomed the night feeds and the lack of sleep as it reminded me of how lucky i was to be here and have a child. i do not regret anything as that would mean i regret my daughter and i don't. i love being a mum, even though it's hard work. it's worth it.
having my daughter made me wake up, take charge and be responsible for not only myself, but her too. she was never a regret or something/someone unwanted, and even with people in my ear saying i had ruined my life, i knew that she had done the complete opposite, she saved my life! she took me down a new and brighter path and led me to grow and love my new job as mommy. now pregnant with my second daughter, i feel she has done the same thing. she put me on a whole new path for life and has blessed me already. KIDS DO NOT RUIN ANY ONES LIFE! i hate that saying, age has nothing to do with it, kids bless the people who are given the opportunity to be a part of their lives. god never gives you more then you can handle and every little life has come for a reason. Bristol Palin to Teens: Don't Get Pregnant | RHRealityCheck.org::
And she also has strong family support in raising her child while If we all prize having individuals wait until they are really ready to parent,
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You will support your child to find ways to change their own behavior with this If you are in recovery or are a parent of a young person who has
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I think what you said is inspiring and beautiful : )
Parents Helping Young Children Through Stressful Times, FLM-FS-8-99::
However, no two children experience change in exactly the same way. Having a positive relationship with both parents or a significant adult can be the
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I can't wait till my daughter gets here, I have a feeling that when she does my priorities will become a lot clearer and i think she'll make me feel very lucky. 3 months to go.
It made me grow up, was pregnant with my son at 18 and gave birth 4months after my 19th. I was into drugs and drinking, most nights, i didnt give a sh*t about me oranyone else i was selfish and not a nice person, the second i found out i was pregnant, everything went, my baby was my world and nothing was going to get in the way. I buckled down at college and even started a new course with 4 weeks to go, i went back to college 3months fater my son was born, he came tyoo and i completed when he was 18months old a fully qualified graphic designer.
I then took time out to be with him, bring him up, He is now at school, in his second year, i have worked so hard to get whwre i am today, all single too, and now all i want to do is work, but noone will look at me twice because of the hours i can do...obviously have to fit in between school time!
I wish single parents got more help with going into work rather than help staying on benefits. I have a gorgeous guy now who is our world and adores my son, but he works out in Iraq and so doesnt live wqith us, all i want is a secure job so that when he ends his contract in april and leaves iraq for good he can move in and we can both pay our way!
Having my son, whoi is now 6 was the best thing that ever happend to me, id do it all over again in an instant
people who feel alone and not wanting to interact with the outside world seek comfort in the unconditinal love of a child wether they are teen or adults.
some of these people thrive and some dont do so well but you sound like this has been your calling and seem to have changed and adapted to having a child
well done you your daughter is a very lucky little girl to have a mum who cares about her they way you do.
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